The effect of words on human personality

 

Allah Almighty has created us all with the most wonderful personality. And you are all very intelligent and perfect people. You are not going to be intimidated by hard work day and night and any kind of difficulty. You possess immense qualities and abilities. You are honest, enthusiastic, brave, determined, and determined. You speak the truth even in difficult situations and admire the good work of others. You are a humble person who takes care of others and helps friends in difficult situations. You respect people so people in every game respect you very much. And people like to meet you once they meet you again. People who ask for help in difficult situations are treated with a smile. And they gladly help them in every possible way. Society is prospering and developing only because of people like you. If you have all these qualities inside you then you are a really great person. Remember words have a profound effect on a person's personality. Negative words upset the balance of your personality. Positive words play a very important role in your personality. In principle, on the slightest compliment to someone, he will be very happy and will respect you. But we are reluctant to praise anyone. And think that he never praised me so why should I praise him. If a person is making progress, we discourage him instead of encouraging him. And scare him with problems. People in our society view every aspect critically and give their opinion in a negative way. Don't think about what effect these words will have on others. When we see our friend or close relative suffering from a bad society, we start lecturing him in front of everyone instead of using the term. And then everyone walks around telling him about his honor. That either it will straighten or it will leave us. You use the wrong way to explain it to him so he really leaves you. Then you go around complaining about it in front of everyone. You never tired of praising him. You also say that I did it all for the better. Your words separate your friend from you. And you don't even realize it. Hazrat Ali ( R.A ) says That advice is given alone fixes it. And the advice given in front of everyone spoils it. Many researchers say that constantly calling a person a failure will never make them successful. By making fun of a person on everything, he can never mix with people. In his personality comes space forever. How would you feel if someone called you a coward, ignorant or barbaric in a crowded party? Will you smile and thank him cheerfully, that I am grateful to you for calling me a coward, ignorant and barbaric, or will you get angry and vent your anger on him? How long will you tolerate people always mocking you for any mistake? When you run out of patience you will start fighting them. And will avoid coming in front of them. It is because of these problems that chaos is spreading in our society. A poet says Nothing goes for those who say the word Those who endure the word do wonder. Every word that comes out of your mouth has good value. The words that come out of your mouth also make your place in the heart of another. Or even humiliate you. When you use good words you will be remembered in good words. People will be reluctant to come to you when they hear negative words. It doesn't take much effort to say good words if you decide to keep your attitude positive. By doing this you will be successful in your personal and professional life as well as very popular among the people very soon. Just try and see